The Uses of Sadness
Why feeling sad is no reason not to be happy
Author: Karen Masman
Publisher: Allen
and Unwin, Sydney 2009
RRP: AU$24.95
Also available as an eBook here.
This book is based on a radical idea:
Feeling sad is no reason not to be happy.
Feeling sad is a natural part of being human. Times
of sadness do not necessarily mean that something is ‘going wrong’.
Rather, they can be potent times of transition, retreat and reflection;
times to feel the longing of the heart, to reassess our goals and
assumptions, and to become our own best friend. Rather than automatically
labeling our everyday experiences of sadness as depression, we can
become increasingly skillful at learning how to harvest the soulful
gifts that are hidden within them. And we can learn to share this
invaluable understanding and practical skill with others, including
the young people in our life. It could well make all the difference
in the world!
Based on an original seven-phase cycle of ‘soulful
sadness’, this book takes us on an insightful and soulful journey
through the terrain of everyday sadness where we will learn how
to recognise and engage with each of the phases. Filled with anecdotes
and stories from both adults and children, this compassionate book
offers powerful windows into the uses of sadness. Each chapter contains
suggestions for simple and creative activities anyone can try. These
delightful activities will help you make peace with sadness as one
of the many flavours of a soulful and deeply rewarding life. The
last part of the cycle will open up ways for taking your discoveries
forward into your life with renewed energy and enthusiasm.

'When we bring a steady, compassionate gaze to an experience
instead of trying to simply make it go away, it is as if a 'soul
substance' is released and made available to us.'
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The Uses of Sadness is now availabe from
all major bookstores across Australia and New Zealand, or internationally
from the Allen
and Unwin website, or even as an eBook here. You are
welcome to email me with
questions about the book or click
here for questions
& answers on the uses of sadness. You can find
out a little more about me here.
Listen to an audio transcript of my interview on
ABC's Life Matters, March 09 by
clicking here.
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